Friendship And Sharing Skills in Babies
Like many parents, are you wondering when your baby will start to socialize with others? Socialization is critical for a baby’s healthy development, but it’s not just about playing with peers. When babies look at each other, shriek with excitement, or even completely ignore one another, these are all important parts of the socialization process. So, what can you do to support your child’s social and emotional growth? When do babies begin to socialize? If you're curious about how to help your baby build friendships and develop sharing skills, keep reading!
When do babies start socializing?
From the moment they are born, babies begin to adapt to and respond to the people around them. In their first year, they are primarily focused on interacting with their parents. Although they may enjoy being around others, they continue to feel closest to their parents. Some babies may even become upset and cry when held by others.
As your baby approaches two years old, they gradually begin to interact and play with other children. This interest in playing is largely based on trial and error. Just as they slowly learn various aspects of social interaction, they will also gradually learn how to play with others. For example, at first, they may refuse to share any of their toys. But rest assured, when the time is right and they develop this skill; they will be able to form meaningful friendships.
You are your baby’s first friend
Your baby’s journey into social life begins at home, and you are their first and best friend. If they have siblings, those relationships also play a big role. Skin-to-skin contact, breastfeeding, talking, hugging, singing, and reading books are some of the many ways you interact with your newborn. Everything you do to meet their basic needs and support their development also contributes to their socialization process.
Babies love to be touched, held, loved, and smiled at. When you respond to them in these ways, you’ll soon see them respond back. They’ll enjoy watching your face and begin to mimic your expressions. Even something as simple as sticking out your tongue may lead them to copy you. That’s why your role as their first friend is vital to their early social development.
When you actively support your baby’s social development, you may see their first real smile as early as three months. You'll also notice that they observe their surroundings more closely while awake. These are all signs of growing social awareness. As they continue to develop, they’ll become more open to new people and even greet them with joy. Still, no matter what, the biggest smile will always be for you, their first friend.
When do babies learn to share?
Even the smallest interaction with other children helps babies take their social skills to the next level, and sets the foundation for an active social life later on. This doesn't only happen at daycare. Interactions with family members, neighbors, or playgroups are more than enough. So, what’s the most important part of all these interactions? Sharing. Sharing is a vital part of forming friendships, children start to learn this skill around 2–3 years old.
At this age, children become more mobile and begin playing together. It’s also when they start learning to share their toys. Before that, during the first two years, most babies tightly hold on to what’s theirs and refuse to share. To help your child learn to share, try spending more time outside during their first two years. Going to the park, joining music classes, or arranging playgroups can all help with their social development. As a result, you’ll likely notice that your child enjoys spending more time with their peers.
Having a playmate and beginning to learn how to share during early childhood is very important. Children who socialize from a young age also tend to develop stronger language skills. They’re better able to understand what’s being said to them and express themselves clearly, both in the present and in the future.
The importance of playgroups for babies
Playgroups are social activities designed for children in a specific age range, typically 0–6 years, where they engage with others without their parents. These group settings are essential for social, emotional, and cognitive development. Through playgroups, babies learn to interact with others, share, and collaborate.
Playgroups play a big role in teaching basic social skills. The interactions during play also help children develop empathy. As you help your baby become a more social individual through playgroups, your role is just as important. Your baby learns how to build friendships from you. This foundation allows them to be more confident and active in group settings. For example, even the time you spend with your baby during bath time is incredibly valuable. A fun bath experience not only strengthens your bond but also introduces a sense of safe and loving connection. With Dalin, this emotional journey is supported every step of the way, enhancing your baby’s earliest friendships.
Considering all of this, you can help your child develop strong social skills — like friendship and sharing — right from infancy. By forming close bonds and giving them early opportunities to connect with others, you’re supporting the growth of a warm and friendly personality. As your baby grows and learns about the world, you, as their first friends, play a key role in helping them build strong relationships. One of the best ways to start? Simple games you can play together. The more social activities you do with your baby, the better their social development will be. And of course, playful bath times with Dalin can make their world even more joyful.
In your baby’s early years, Dalin is one of their best friends! With Dalin products by your side during bath time and personal care routines, your little one can enjoy fun, meaningful moments. Explore the Dalin blog for more helpful content to support your baby’s social development!